Monday, April 14, 2014

Lunes Santo: Refleksyon ni Ate Krystal, Youfra (Guide Question)

  • Why was Jesus angry?
 Bakit nga ba nagalit si Hesus? 

  • If you were one of the sellers, how would you have reacted? What about if you were a pilgrim visiting the Temple?

 Kung isa ka sa mga nagtitinda anu ang iyong magiging reaksyon sa ginawa ni Hesus? Kung ikaw naman ay mananampalataya anu ang magiging reakyon mo

  •  Is it okay to have a bookstore at the back of your parish church?
 Ayos lang bang magkaroon ng tindahan ng mga aklat sa likod ng inyong parokya?

  • How is Jesus challenged after cleansing the Temple? What question is He asked?
               Ano ang pagsubok ni Hesus matapos ang paglilinis ng tempe? anung katanungan ang kanyang itinanong?

  • Why does Jesus “not trust himself to them”?
 anu ang ibig sabihin ng  hindi rin nagkatiwala sa kanila, 

  • What areas might Jesus which to cleanse in your life?
  
 Anu-ano ang mga bagay-bagay na maaaring linisin ni Hesus sa buhay mo?




Lunes Santo (Mula sa Pasyon Mahal)



Si S. Marcos ang nangusap, 
sa Ebanghelyo’y sinulat;
di umano’y ang Mesias,
nang Lunes muling lumakad
sa Herusalem tumambad.

Doon sa paglakad nila,
sa daan ay may nakita
na isang punong higera,
ang daho’y kaaya-aya
nguni’t wala namang bunga

Yaong puno ng halamanng
higera ang pangalan
walang bunga ni isa man
ay sinumpa kapagkuwan
nito ngang Poong Maykapal.

Pagtataka’y mago’t mago
niyong mga disipulo
doon nila napagsinona
ang higera ngang ito
ang katulad at ang tao.

Katulad nga at kabagay
ng taong makasalanan
na kung walang kabanalan
ang dahon ma’y malalabay
ay wala ring pakinabang.

Sapagka’t ang tao pala
ay katampatang mamungang
mga gawang maganda
at kung dili’y mapapara
sa sinumpa ngang higera.

Nang si Hesus ay masok na,
saTemplo ay may nakita,
mga tindaha’t lamesa,
itinapong parapara
isa ma’y walang natira.

Sa malaking kagalitan
nitong Diyos na maalam,
sila’y ipinagtabuyan,
at di dapat pagtindahan.

Ang sino mang matuwainat
budhing lubhang matining
sa Diyos na Poon natin,
dito’y dapat na manalangin,
at di dapat na hamakin.

Nang mangaral na sa Templo
ang Poong si Hesukristo,
pinagbuntunan ng tao,
eskribas at pariseo
at ang iba pang mga hudyo.

Ani San Juan kay Kristo,
nagtanong ang mga lilo,
anong ipakikita mo,
sa akin at patotoo
at ginawa mo nga ito.

Ang sagot ni Kristo naman:
itong mahal na Simbahan,
igiba ninyo’t ihapay
itatayo ko ring tunay
sa loob ng tatlong araw.

Ang sa hudyong itinuring:
simbahang ito nang gawin
ay apatnapu at anim
ang taon sa bilang namin
bago nayaring magaling.

Saka ngayo’y tuturan mo
sa amin ay pangahas mo
kung igiba itong templo,
sa tatlong araw na husto
iuuli mong magbago.

Ang isip at sapantahang
mga hudyong kuhila,
ang Templong kahanga-hanga
mauuli kung masira
bago yao’y talinghaga.

Ang katawan nga ni Kristo
ang iuuling magbago,
na sa araw na ikatlo,
mabubuhay na totoo,
hindi ang tunay na Templo.

Kung baga magkagayon man
na iuuli ang Simbahan Simbahan
anong pagkakaliwagan?
kung ang buong Santinakpan
nayari sa wika lamang.

Ipinangaral na niya
yaong Sermon de la Vina,
ang maghasik ng maganda,
mag-aaning walang salang
tuwa’t madlang ligaya.

Nguni’t ang mga sukaban,
nagpunla ng kasamaan,
wala namang makakamtan,
at walang kasasapitan
kung hindi nga kahirapan.

Kaya alin ka ma’t sino
na nakaririnig nito
ang iyong isipin dito,
ang isinermon ni Kristo na
halimbawa sa tao.

Palaspas Noon at Ngayon: isang Refleksyon ni Ate Krystal, Youfra; isang Marian Lasalyanong Franciscano ngayon mahal na ara 2014


Ang palaspas ay hindi anting-anting. Ito ay simbolo n gating pananampalataya. Wag natin itong gawin bilang anting-anting at proteksyon sa halip ay ating ito isapuso na ito ay hindi anting-anting o anu paman sa halip ito ay isa sa mga simbolo n gating pananampalataya at pagmamahal kay kristo
Bakit nga ba kailangan magbasbas ng palaspas tuwing araw ng palaspas at hindi sa ibang araw?
Komon na sagot. Dahil ito ay pantaboy ng masamang espirito, pantaboy ng kamalasan, para maging anting-anting ng tahanan, para maging protekryon sa mga negatibo. Natural yan ang gamit niyan pero walang silbi yang mga paniniwala na yan kung wala ka naming totoong paniniwala sa totoo simbolo ng mahal na araw na nagsisimula sa araw ng palaspas
Yan nga ba ang totoo essence ng mahal na araw? O nawawala ng unti-unti?
Sagot. Nawawala na po na unti- unti ang totoong essence ng mahal na araw. Wala tayong sapat na nagtuturo ng katekista. Sa ibang paaralan hindi itinuturo ang religious education/Christian leaving education/catholic education. So bakit kailangan? Bakit kailangan? Kasi katoliko ka at nararapat lang na malaman mo ito. Kung gusto ay my paraan kaya kung nais mo talagang malaman ay gagawa ka nga paraan para malaman yan. May internet na sa isang click mo lang mahahanap mo. Mura na ngayon ang mga aklat kesa nuon. Bukas ang parokya para sa mga ganyan pero bakit parin nawawala ang totoong essesnce ng mahal na araw? Dahil hindi ito taos sa puso kaya hindi ito nanatili sa puso’t isipian. Kapos na nga tayo sa katekista hindi niyo pa isasapuso,l edi wala rin. Ang mahal na araw ay magiging katatawanan sa iba, magiging katatakutan sa iba at marami pang iba
Ang palaspas ay hindi panghampas.. karaniwan ang palaspas ay nagiging panghampas.. wag ganun simpleng kaway lang ay ayos na
Anu nga ba ang totoo simbolo nito?
Nuong unang panahon ito ay tradisyon sa pagsalubong sa mga bisita. Bakit my palaspas? Nuon unang panahon ay dahon ng niyog lang ito na iwinawagayway ng mga tao sa pag pasok ni hesus
Taon natin ngayon. Taon ng mga layko at kahit sino ay maaring maging layko. Lahat tayo ay layko. Kaya wag natin kalimutan ang totoong essence o simbolo palaspas at  ng mahal na araw.
Sa pagpasok ng araw ng palaspas yan ang pormal na pagpasok ng mahal na araw na susundan ng lunes santo, martes santo, huebes santo, viernes santo, sabado de Gloria at magtatapos sa lingo ng pagkabuhay.

Ngunit sa mga panahon ba na ito ay ikaw nga ba ay handa na? dapat ay Oo. Dahil ang mahal na araw ay dyan tayo nag rerenew n gating pananampalataya sa kanya. Dyan tayo nagagalak sa pagpasok niya sa herusalem at sa ating mga puso. Yan ang totoong simbolo ng araw ng palaspas at hindi dahil anting-ating yan o pangotra.. hindi yan ang gamit nyan. Dapat buong-buo ang paniniwala mo hindi lang sa ganyang bagay. 

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Payo ni Ate Krystal, Youfra; isang Marian Lasalyanong Franciscano sa kanyang mga kapatid para sa Semana Santa 2014

Para sa aking mga kapatid sa pananampalataya at sa debosyon.  Wag ka sanang tamarin ngayon bakasyon upang gawin ang mga karapat dapat mong gawin. Ngayon ka na lang makakabawi dahil ngayon ay walang pasok kaya gawin mo na ang mga nasabing Gawain upang makabawi ka. Ang semana santa o mahal na araw ay hindi araw upang tayo ay mag saya at magpunta sa mga BEACH o anu pa mang Gawain. Itong araw na ito ay inilaan po upang tayo ay magnilay-nilay, mag debosyon, mag balik loob at mangumpisal hindi upang tayo ay mag swimming o anu pa man. Itong araw na ito ay an gating renewal of Faith and Believe

Mag kaiba po ang BAKASYON sa BANAL NA ARAW.  Ang bakasyon ay para sa sarili at ang banal na araw ay iniaalay sa dios upang tayo ay makabawi sa kanya at ipakita ang ating pagmamahal sa kanya. Dito na nga lang tayo makakabawi ilalan pa natin sa iba.

Ang Semana santa ay panahon ng DEBOSYON hindi ng KAYABANGAN. May mga santo ka bang inaalagaan? Kung meron maari mo ito ilabas ng buong puso at ipakita sa lahat. Hindi poi to pagandahan ng SANTO o ng karo at dekorasyon sa karo o andas. Kung pag yayabang lang po ang nais ninyu aba wag niyo na pong gawin ngayon at makakaabala lang po kayo sa tunay na may debosyon

Ang PABASA ay panahon ng pag awit ng buhay ni Hesus at hindi upang tayo ay MAGPASIKAT AT MAG CONCERT. Hindi po to labanan ng pag awit. Hindi poi to pagandahan ng boses at dekorasyon sa altar lalong hindi poi to pasarapan ng pagkain ihahanda para sa mga mambabasa. Kahit simpleng pabasa lang yan, wala ka mang handa I mikropono maski poon ay ikaw ay maaaring makibahagi

ANG MGA MAAAGANG O MADALIANG ARAW NA MISa.. hindi po yan ang araw upang kayong magkasintahan ay magsipag garutayan sa daan, sa simbahan at sa madidilim na lugar. Respeto naman po sa simbahan at sa mga lugar na kinalalagyan ninyu po at lalong respeto naman po sa totoo diwa ng semana santa 

Ang SIMBAHAN AY HINDI PASYALAN.. hindi po pasyalan ang mga simbahan o parokya ng mga magsing irog so please magdasal po muna kayo bago po magliwaniw kung saan-saan at magtungo sa paligid-ligid upang mag selfie at kunan ang altar, santo at iba pa pong bahagi ng simbahan o parokya. Hindi lang po sa magsingirog po ito maging sa iba.. hinay-hinay lang po sa mga madidilim ang lugar.. hinay hinay lang sa pag seselfie at pag pipicture baka madukutan o maagawan po kayo

ANG SIMBAHAN AY HIND LUGAR PARA SA MASAMANG GAWAIN. Kung ikaw ay my masamang binabalak sa loob ng simbahan. Wag mo na ituloy ang balak mo. Wala man sayong nakakita nakikita ka po ng Dios mahiya ka naman kapatid.. kung ikaw naman ay magkasintahan aba magpakasal po muna kayo bago kayong gumarutay sa loob ng Simbahan. At lalong lalong wag po kayong lumagay sa madidilim na lugar ng simbahan at duon ay gumawa ng milagro. Tandaan nakikita po kayo ng DIOS at mahiya naman po kayo. RESPETO naman po sa kinauukulan.

WALA PO TAYO SA ISANG ESTASYON NG TELEVISION AT NAKUKUGULO UPANG MAKAKITA NG ARTISTA.. wag naman po pasikatan.. sikat na nga ang araw magpapasikat pa po kayo masyadong mainet wag na

HINDI PO HOTEL ANG SIMBAHAN, GROTO. Aba ang simbahan at grotto ay hindi hotel try niu kaya magtungo sa lugar nababagay ang mga Gawain po ninyo. Wag naman po sa harap at tahanan ng panginoon po kayong gumawa ng kababalaghan. Wag nap o kayong mandamay sa mga kasalanan ninyo. Kayo na lang po.

WALA PO TAYO SA ISANG CONCERT.. tama na hiyawan. Tama nap o tulakan. Ala po tayo sa isang concierto upang tayo ay sumigaw at manulak. Nasa prusisyon o misa po tayo. Lahat po tayo ay makakakita, madadaanan at mabebendisyunan

HINAHABOL ANG BENDISYON. Aba kung trip mo lang mabendisyunan aba dun ka na lang sa Divine Mercy dun sa may umuulan ng tubig. Tiyak solo mo dun. Magdala ka na rin ng sabon at panigurado mababasa ka dun ng todo. Yan ang gusto mo kapatid di ba. So dun ka. Or mag swimming ka na lang. wala naman po halaga kung nadampian ka man ng patak ng tubig mula sa bendisyon o hindi ang mahalaga ay ikaw ay nagsimba at nagdasal na taos sa iyong puso. Bakit mamatay k aba kapag hindi ka nadampian ng banal na tubig? Hindi naman di ba. Dun sa Divine Mercy maraming banal na tubig pili ka kung saang galling sa Gripo ba, sa Divine Mercy image ba, sa Grotto ba o sa likod dun sa parang maulan na lugar.. wag habulin ang bendisyon magdasal ka walang halaga yan kung hindi taos sa puso mo..

HOY HINAYUPAK MAGKAIBA PO ANG PRUSISYON SA PARADA.. ang prusisyon ay banal ang parade ay hindi.. hindi po toing film festival ng MMFF na pwedi mong pagkaguluhan upang Makita ang mga Santo na parang Artista sa mukha ninyu. Tulak rito tulak roon. Kaway dito tulak roon. Aba kung ganyan ang gagawin niyo aba matagal pa po ang MFF festival sa pasko pa yun dun na lang kayo. Prusisyon man yan ng nazareno o Camarerong prusisyon. Wag naman po ganyan. Respeto naman po sa mga tao, sa mga mamamasan at manghihila or kung ayaw niyo po respeto naman po sa panginoon na nahihirapan dahil po sa atin.

ANG PAROKYA O SIMBAHAN AY HINDI PARKE.  Banal na banal na araw tapos makakakita ka ng mga magkasintahan na nag p PDA o mga pamilyang nagtatakbuhan o mga bata.. HOY mahiya naman po kayo sa magulang niyo at sa Dios. Wala po tayo sa parke para mag PDA at mag habulan o takbuhan at lalong wala naman po tayong formation session na ganayan kaharot ang mga Gawain.. aba kahit banal ang araw kung ganyan karumadumal naman ang Gawain aba makakarinig ka talaga ng malutong na PI sa mga matatandang deboto, kahit ayaw nilang sabihin yan masasabi nila dahil ang harot ninyo.

P*@#,  T@*, G@&0, T@#@6%.. aba ang lulutong ng mga mura ninyo mga ineng, kuya at kapatid. Nasan po ba tayo nasa? Nasa Computer shop? Nasa sabungan? Nasa kalye? Aba nasa loob po tayo ng banal na lugar.. ay wala po kami sa loob ng simbahan nasa labas po kami.. ganyan. Ganyan ang exsena lagi sa likod ng Divine Mercy so wala kayo sa loob ng simbahan eh nasan po ba kayo? Di ba nasa lupa o lote po kayo na kinatitirikan ng Divine Mercy o ng anu pa mang simbahan o pook dalanginan.. respeto naman po.. wag naman po tayo magmura.. kung hindi mo nakikita dyan sa kapwa mo si Kristo aba isipin mo nasa banal na lugar ka na lang kapatid.

HALA NGIMA LANG, KAIN LANG. KAMBING KA KAPATID?! Hindi ka naman po gambing di po ba so tigilan niu naman po ngumuya. Isang oras lang po ang banal na misa. Kung siyete palabras yan wag naman po masyadong halata.. siguro naman po ayaw mo masabihan nila father na kambing ka ba?  Di baa yaw mo yun. So wag kang ngumima kapatid habang nagmimisa.. maswerte nga tayo dahil pag magsisimba tayo ay pwedi tayong mag agahan o kumain ngunit noon bawal ni tubig bawal pero ngayon pwedi na.! RESPETO LANG PO. Wag po tayo ngumuya ng chewing gum, bubble gum o kendi habang nagmimisa. DUN KA NA LANG NGUMUYA SA PRUSISYON TIYAKIN MO LANG ITATAPON MO NG MAAYOS ANG MGA BALAT.

MAGKAIBA PO ANG ABSTINENCE AT FASTING SA DIET.  Mahal na araw na. bawal kumain ng karne. Mahal na araw na di muna ako kakain para pumayat ako.. HOY! ANG SEMANA SANTA AY  HINDI PANAHON NG PAG DA DIET DAPAT ARAW-ARAW ANG DIET HINDI TUWING SEMANA SANTA LANG.. anu ba ang ABSITENCE? Pag iwas sa pag kain ng karne. Nararapat ba to gawin? OU PERO MAAARI NAMAN HINDI GAWIN BASTA SA PAGPASOK NG PALASPAS ay gawin mo to. Fasting. Kelan to ginagawa? Maaring sa kabuuan ng semana santa o sa Holly week lang o sa Biyerner santo. Bahala ka. Basta gawin mo to kahit minsan hindi dahil mataba ka o anu pa man.. respeto po sa tradisyon at sa Dios.

Ang MAHAL NA ARAW AY ARAW NG PAGTITIKA AT HINDI NG PAGPAPASAKIT MO SA KATAWAN MO. Ginawa na ni Kristo yan. Wag mo na gawin.. hindi naman kailangan yan. Simpleng paghingi ng tawad lang ok na. simpleng determinasyon ay pwedi na. simpleng kumpisal ay ayos na. so bakit kailangan mo pa magpunta sa Pampanga upang magpapako sa krus o magsuot ng takip sa mukha at magpahampas sa likod. Hindi kaialangan yan. Gusto mo masaktan? Magbuhat o maghila ka ng mga imahe sa prusisyon ng buong araw o prusisyon. Dun sa Quiapo matagal prusiyon dun volunteer ka ng ikaw lang tingnan ko lang kung hindi ka mahirapan.. HINDI PO YAN ANG TUNAY NA ESSENCE NG PAGHINGI NG TAWAD SA KANYA..

TUMULONG SA KAPWA.. yan ang pinaka the best mong maaring gawin. Ang pagtulong sa kapwa. Sabi nga ni Archbishop Luis Antonio Cardinal Tagle ang Semana Santa ay panahon rin ng pagkakaisa at kawanggawa. Yan ay batay sa pastoral letter kanyang inilabas nuong 2013


BYAHENG BAKASYON.. respeto naman po. Sana sa pagpasok ng araw ng palaspas ay kaya ninyo gampanan ang pagiging kristiyaning katoliko ninyo. Ang semana santa ay hindi panahon upang tayo ay magbakasyon at magpunta sa beach. Ito ay isang araw na especial upang tayong mga katoliko ay mag renew n gating pananampalataya. Yan ang essence niyan. Kumbaga sa sa linya ng isang sasakyan ngayon tayo mag rerenew n gating pananampalataya. 


lets Quoted from the Bible,. its all about  Faith and Works.. according to JAmes

18Indeed someone might say, “You have faith and I have works.” Demonstrate your faith to me without works, and I will demonstrate my faith to you from my works.19You believe that God is one. You do well. Even the demons believe that and tremble.20Do you want proof, you ignoramus, that faith without works is useless?21Was not Abraham our father justified by works when he offered his son Isaac upon the altar?k22You see that faith was active along with his works, and faith was completed by the works.23Thus the scripture was fulfilled that says, “Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness,” and he was called “the friend of God.”l24See how a person is justified by works and not by faith alone.25And in the same way, was not Rahab the harlot also justified by works when she welcomed the messengers and sent them out by a different route?m26For just as a body without a spirit is dead, so also faith without works is dead.

Lets explain the whole verse from James 2:14-26.. its all about faith and works.. you deed on your faith. what is the relation ship of faith into your work? you have faith but you don't work for it. it totally useless but if you work for it you can attain the salvation as well as the true meaning of happiness. so would you be a arrogant etc? don't be a arrogant.. you need to be helpful. according to bishop tagle lent is a time to be helpful not to be a boastful or to go somewhere . lent is a time to repent and to renew our faith. so if you are going far away from you faith. just read this verses. James 2;14-26 and reflect it.  the true essence of this verse is like the lent. the implications of true faith for a life of love and generosity. we must love each other and be generous to others. 


 etong artikulo na ito ay magbibigay daan sa mga madlang my suwestiyon o nais ipabago.. ngunit wala po ako ritong babaguhin tanging pagdagdag lang ang aking gagawin.. on going revision po ito. salamat po 

Friday, February 14, 2014

Valentines 2014



Latin : feliciem diem sancti valentini
French : Bonne Saint Valentin
German Alles Liebe zum Valentinstag!
Hebrew: yom ahava sameach
Hindi : Prem diwas ki shubhkamnayein
Italian: Buon San Valentino
Portuguese: Feliz Dia dos Namorados
Spanish : Feliz día de San Valentín


Happy Valentines
Maligayang Araw ng Mga Puso!

Deus Caritas Est meaning God is Love


we don'y need to wait the date February 14 to say i love you, happy heart day, happy valentines or maligayang araw ng mga  puso. every day we can say it. 
we don'y need to wait the date February 14 to express our love to all person that are special to us. we express it everyday.
you don't need to have a boyfriend or girlfriend or be in a relationship just to feel the valentines because the best relationship we can have is our relationship with the lord. the best valentines we can have is our valentines with the lord. our oneness through songs and service, our oneness through prayer, our oneness inspirational talk and words  
you don't need a date this valentines just be who you are
don't be sad because you don't have a date. date with the lord, date with your family and friends. date is not telling us for relationship or couple but for everyone
you don't need to wait the valentines to date everyone because every hour of our life we can have an opportunity to date someone 
a heart days is not only for a couple, for a boy friend or girlfriend, whether its straight or not, whether its heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual because heart day is for everyone. the heart is a sign of love that everyone deserve to have whether who you are or what you are. there is no barrier about love even age, status, environment etc. this love whether what kinds of love is, we need to share it and grab it. share our love through our family, friends, acquaintance, special someone, others and special to our god.  the most important for love is TIME. we need to have time to express our love. lets us spread our love
you don't need a relationship to feel valentines because everyone of us has a plan for us. just pray for the direction to follow it and have patience to wait it, and knowledge to know it when it comes. everyone of us have his.her purpose here on earth 
we can be happy even we are not in relationship. we have our own freedom. doing what you like is freedom, liking what you do is happiness so don't be bitter 
Each of us is the result of thought of God. Each of us is willed. Each of us is loved. each of us is necessary so don't say that you are not love by anybody because you are important specially to God. 
one of the deffinition of love is Sacrifice meaning even a sole object you have you can give or share to someone with all you heart without any doubt, mandatory, compulsory, obligatory or forced. to it according to what you feel
our God is our light, there is no Darkness at all. if some one leave you don't be sad.if someone broke a relationship with you don't be shy and say to yourself its ok. you can decide to love this person and wait or just move one. you have a freedom to do what you wan't but you need not to be sad because its also a lesson in your life
 if it case you are unfortunate, unlucky, bitter, etc. don't lose hope and faith with him. its our part of growing toward maturity. just think. its a trial given to by our God to be strong in a relationship and in different aspect of your life. think also that he lose you a special creation or a special gift of  God  not You. you can't have take 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8. 9 until you have a breath you can have it. what ever is it don't be sate. stay positive, never give up, never be down, never say die. .life is good,  
if you have a good memories look back and smile, if you have a bad memories don't be bitter, you can look it and have it as your inspiration or just a lesson. you deserve to be happy. 

Everyone make mistake, nobody is perfect live it, learn from it and move on
Before you move on just remember to have a graveness stage

Life is short.
Break the rules,
forgive quickly,
kiss slowly,
love truly, laugh uncontrollably
and never regret anything that made you smile

Everything in life can teach you a lesson, you just have to be willing to observe and learn

I give my heart to Jesus. This special time of year. When others seem so distant my lord is always near.
Be joyful in hope. Be patient in affliction. Be faithful in prayer
Slow down and enjoy the journey right now. Take time for the people in your life. They won’t always be there
Let our love story be within God’s love story for us
Don’t make you life hard. Involve God on you
Don’t waste your life trying to impress other people. Do what you love, love what you do
God’s plan will always be greater and more beautiful than all your disappointments 

Pax et Bonum 

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Happy 362nd Birthday to Saint John Baptist de La Salle!


APRIL 30
Happy 362nd Birthday to Saint John Baptist de La Salle!

APRIL 30 ngayon ay ang ika 362 kaarawan ng tagapagtatag ng lasalle bropthers at lasallian schools na si Saint John Baptist de La Salle.
©
 Student hanbook of DLSAU Salvador Araneta Campus, Victoneta Avenue Malabon City SY 2011-2012

Brieft Biography of ST JOHN BAPTIST DE LA SALLE

Founder of lasallian Schools
St. John Baptist de la Salle was born to a wealthy family in Rheims, France. The dream was to provide education for the poor, for St. John Baptist de la Salle believed that education gave hope and opportunity for men to lead better lives of dignity and freedom, lives which all man deserve as children of God..

De la Salle was a man  of refined manners, a cultured mind, and great practical ability, in whom personal prosperity was balanced with indness and affability. He lived in times not unlike our own, where he few who are rich control the lives of man who are poor, helpless, hopeles and powerless.

Convinced that he could serve God more devotedly and concentrate on his mission more dedicatedly as a religious, de la salle concecrated himself to God and finally became a priest at the age of 27

Disrupted by the disparity he saw and felt around him, and firmly believing that all men and women ought to live lives more fitting for them as children of God, de la salle devoted himself to the education of the poor, starting with recruiting young men   who ere out of work, training them to become good Christian teachers right in his own home. And later on transferring to others sites when his family and friends refused to accept his recruits into their homes.

Despise the strong objections and criticism from his family and friends, he pursue his mission with relestless perseverance and determination and unfalagging faith, leading him to find the Brothers of the Christian Schools in 1684, when he was only 33 yeas old. Through his congregation of young men dedicated to serve God throught the education of the poor and the Christian formation of the Youth, De la Salle led the way in establishing charity schools and teachers training institutes.

Significant information
Feast Day/ Memorial 7 April
Born Rheims, France 7, April 1719
Died Rouen, France, 7 April 1719
Ordained Priest 9 April 1678
Beatified 19 February 1888
Canonized 24 May 1900
Poclaimed Patron of Christian Teachers  15 May 1950
Name meaning God is gracious (=John)
Patronage educators,school principals, teachers

Today, after 300 years, the La Salle Brohers serve the youth in schools, colleges, universities and other apostolates in 80 country throughout the works.

Happy Birthday         English
Maligayang kaarawan Tagalog
feliz cumpleaños! Spanish
joyeux anniversaire! French
gelukkige verjaardag! Africans
Eid Meelad Saeed Arabik
feliz aniversário!       Portuguese
furaha ya kuzaliwa! Swahili
Zhù nǐ shēngrì kuàilè! Simple chinese
sàangyaht faailohk cantonese
Tanjōbiomedetō! Japan

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

I love you




Napapalingon tuwing ika'y dumadaan
Ngiti mong kay sarap pagmasdan
Di mabura sa aking puso't isipan
Di malaman kailan kaya makakamtan

Wala na kong masabi
Gusto kitang kasama parati
Mundo ko'y nahahati
Dahil sa pag-ibig na di alam ang sanhi

Isang tanong na di alam ang sagot
Mga katagang pumapawi ng kalungkutan
Iyo bang sinasabi lahat ay totoo
O hangang pangarap nalang siguro

Lahat ng ito'y ikaw ang may sala
Mga mata mo na parang tala
Dulot saki'y malaking ginhawa
Sa Pagsabi ng mahal kita di ako magsasawa

Pag-ibig ko sayo'y di magwawagas
Kahit sino pa man ay di makahahadlang
Lahat ng ito'y hindi sana kalokohan
Dahil ako sa iyo'y totoo kahit na kailan pa man

Isinulat Sept 17 2010 6:02 PM

MAHAL NA PAARALAN. (my personal tribute and thanksgiving to SMCM )




ISANG PAARALANG ITINAYO
MGA PADER ANG NAGINNG PUNDASYON
MGA BUBONG ANG NAGSILBING PROTEKSON
UPANG KAMIY PROTEKTAHAN

SIMPLENG PANGRAP
SIMPLENG BUHAY
SIMPLENG PAGKATAO
YAN SI VENERABLE IGNACIA

VENERABLE IGNACIA
AMING FOUNDRESS
HINDI MAN SIYA ANG NAGPAGGAWA
KAMIY TUMATANAW NG MALAGING UTANG NA LOOB

IGNCIA ISANG MUNTING BINHI
MUNTING BINHING BINONDO
NA NGARAP NA MAGLINGKOD
NA NGARAP NA MAGTATAG

RVM ISANG KONGREGASYON
ISANG SUPLING
ISANG ANGKAN
ISANG KONGREGASYON  NA ITINATAG NI MDRE IGNACIA

MADRE IGNACIA ANG NAGING DAAN
MGA PANGRAP NA MATUPAD
MGA MITHIING NAIS ABUTIN
MGA PAGKATAONG MY NAIS

SIMPLENG PAARALAN
NA MERONG ACCREDITATION
PAASCU ACCREDITED
ISO CERTIFIED

PUNDASYON NA NAGING PUNDASYON
PUNDASYON AMING NAGING PUNDASYON
PAGMAMAHAL NA NAGING PAGIBIG
UTANG NA LOOB NA INALAGAAN

Isinulat Nov 19, 2010 6:55 pm

GURO



ISANG SIMPLENG TAONG NANGARAP
ISANG TAON MY PANGARAP
ISANG ESPESYAL NA NILALANG
ISANG TAO MY PAGMAMAHAL

ISANG PROPESYON
ISANG KURSO
ISANG TRABAHO
ISANG TALINO

HINDI LAMANG ISANG PROPESYON
HINDI LAMANG ISANG KURSO
HINDI LAMANG ISANG TRABAHO
HINDI LAMANG ISANG TALINO

ANG PAGIGING GURO
AY ISANG PROPESYON
NGUNIT  HINDI SIMPLENG PROPESYON LAMANG
NA PAMUNI MUNI KA


ISANG TRABAHO
MAGBIBIGAY SAYU NG PERA
NGUNIT HINDI GANUN
DAHIL  ITO AY ISANG SIMBULO NG DAMDAMIN

ISANG PROPESYON
ISANG SIMBOLO NG DAMDAMIN
ISANG DANGAL
ISANG PAG IBIG


 Isinulat noong Nov 19,2010 7:49 PM

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Sa darating na ika-1 at ika-7 ng Disymebre taong 2012 ang Parokoya ng Birhen ng Lourdes ay magkakaroon ng presentasyon na my titulong TRENTA Tinig, Himig Musika. The maramihang tinig ng Birhen ng Lourdes a 30th anniversary thanksgiving concert na magaganap sa parish hall ng nasabing parokya. ang parokya ng Birhen ng Lourdes ay matatagpuan sa Malolos Ave, Bagong Barrio, Caloocan City. maaring makipag ugnayan sa parokya para sa ticket.

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

chapter III 1st draft of the research paper

CHAPTER III

RESEARCH METHODOLOGY


This Chapter presents discussion of our research methodology use, subjects, instrument, method or procedures in data collection and analysis that the researchers employed the study. Asides by the use of the Library Resources , Book resources, Internet sites for related literature and studies and lastly in conducting survey in and out the campus. We also use the internet to get enough information about this thesis.

RESEARCH DESIGN

This research study use of descriptive research to discuss how classroom settings in the fourth year level affect their study habits and other activities. In this research we are studying how would the fourth year level will interact with one another inside the classroom.

Research Participants and Locale

This study was conducted to prove that the sectioning in fourth year level will improve their studies and not same with the first time SMCM do that kind of settings. This is done by researching the main point of our topic comes from the books, textbooks, Psychology enthusiast, internet via asking some question to the group “Nag aral ka sa St. Mary’s kung...” And TeeEms . Questioner that provided a particular topic to be answer with their own view of that said topic. Interviews and surveys form in and out of the campus, in the fourth year lower level and higher level of us. The researcher builds their own question after reading some book about education, psychology, social unpublished document, thesis and some journal. This is don by consulting one of them consulting their teachers and other people they know via social sites like Facebook especially the group of TeeEms and Nag aral ka sa st. marys kung.. And by consulting other Psychology enthusiast

Research Instrument

In gathering our data the researches employed a number and different types of procedures which we use

1. Observation

We observe our own classroom how the girls work by themselves without the help of boys. We

2. Interviews

We do an interview inside and outside our campus and higher and lower level than us the asking their own opinion about our settings

3. Virtual interview

One of the researcher do the virtual interview via the group that she is member

4. Survey

Surveying our classmate and other friends in the same level and in higher and lower level and also outside the campus

5. Virtual survey

One of the researcher do the virtual survey by asking the group that she is member about that said topic

6. Library Use

The researcher use some various material literally books, bound periodicals clippings magazines journal

7. Internet use

The researcher use the internet to research that said topic especially the site Philippines psychology association which one of the member brother is member on the said organization

Research Procedures

Thinking our topic according to our own likeness. We choose our respondent via their own history of the said topics. We select their own interpretation and message that is good for this research to write over this paper. According to their experiences we write this paper

Data Proceedings and Analysis.

The subject and participants of this study are selected via their good messages which appropriate to this paper. The researcher chooses to use all instrument to be able to point out the main reason of the said separation from the first year of separation until to our batch. We interview all teachers in the high school department to gather some information that be helpful to our research. We interview some other people outside our school and lastly we ask the help of the socialization site Facebook by the help of two group “Tee. Ems and Nag aral ka sa St. Mary’s kung…” they also took consideration of our topic and grammar we use they are all willing to give their own experiences in willingness to open and give their honest responds.

Tee Ems. All people who are member to this group and have time to check this group help us by means of commenting to it

Nag-aral ka sa st. mary’s kung.. all people to this group are willing to participate to this study there are give their own experiences even it not appropriate to this topic even their also share their own class pictures to this topic. Some respond are the batches of 1984-1986 who are willing to help us and welcome us to ask many question as we need and they will answer it.

Some teachers correct it and said they tried to remember others. And lastly outside who see all things happened to SMCM since old times who willing to participate also even there are not sure to other answer they give.

1st draft of title page of the thesis/research paper Dec. 2011

A STUDY FOR THE SETTINGS OF BOYS AND GIRLS IN SMCM

A Thesis

Presented to the

Faculty of the High school Department

Saint Mary’s College of Meycauayan

In Partial Fulfillments

of the Requirement for

Secondary Degree

By:

Capalad, Anna Victoria R.

Cruz, Krystal Yvez B.

Uy, Frances Jean R.

December 2011

1st draft of title page of the thesis/research paper Dec. 2011

A STUDY FOR THE SETTINGS OF BOYS AND GIRLS IN SMCM

A Thesis

Presented to the

Faculty of the High school Department

Saint Mary’s College of Meycauayan

In Partial Fulfillments

of the Requirement for

Secondary Degree

By:

Capalad, Anna Victoria R.

Cruz, Krystal Yvez B.

Uy, Frances Jean R.

December 2011

2nd draft of ch. I & 2 of thesis/research paper

CHAPTER I

THE PROBLEM AND ITS SETTING

Introduction

Some country now a day has a regulation that boys and girls should be separated in studying to focus to their studies and no distraction. Their not allowed joining in the classroom or school. Some school allowed joining two gender in a school but different settings. Boys stay in all boys’ room and girls stay in all girls room. The most known schools is the school who only allow one gender per schools. Their a school who implement the single sex education. Sometimes their has a sister schools or brother school. The government implements that said settings in public school so that the student can focus to their studies but many private schools do the same implementation.

Here in our country their no such kinds of regulations that the government implemented. But their has a school who only pursue the single sex education either in classroom or on their schools. Single sex education can lead to difference behavioral order, physical , mental and psychological. Also can have bad effect or good effects this call the advantages and dis advantages.

This are the all boys school. Ateneo de Manila University, Lourdes school of Quezon city, Xavier school, Notre Dam, Don Bosco, Claret School of Quezon city, Aquinas School, LaSalle Greenhill’s, Espiritu Santo Parochial school in sta. Cruz Manila, Immaculate Conception for Boys.

This are the all girls school Miriam College, Assumption College, St,Scholastoca, St. Therese, Colegio De La Imaculada Conception, Immaculate Conception Academy, Philippines Woman University, School of the Holy Spirit.

Some school that I say is a Catholic school some school are technical school but in one way they are same they are all girls and all boys’ schools.

We are all known that boys and girls are dependent in each other. If they are no boys girls cannot work and if they are no girl’s boys cannot work to. But why is the point that even girl can work independent they are asking the work of boys same with girls. Some psychologist said that being dependent to each other is being socialize and being socialize is being a member of a group. The ones common problem of boys is laziness even on girls but 70 % is boys and only 30 % is for girls. The boys benefited with the girls and the girls benefited with the boys. They are the same benefited and they are the same it can spoil both sides

Here in the SMCM the common problem is the laziness of a student and the cleanliness of ones classroom also the bullying. Way back 1984-1986 SMCM conceptualize that said settings the all boys and all girls’ settings. It not success because many doesn’t like that said settings and many disadvantages they encounters.

Their has a Group in Facebook known as Nag aral ka sa St. Mary’s kung.. And their many people know those separation settings even on the group Tee Ems or the Tubong Meycauayan. According to Eimee Manuel Altre Wow! “Technology has evolved so much. Since when the girls are separated from the boys? Why so? Back in 1984 it was done yet was not so successful that's why it lasted only for a year. Di ba mas masaya kung co-ed?” .. for him c- education is much better than one sex education

According to Lhou Villanueva San Roque who studied in SMCM way back 1984-1985 under Miss Soriano. According to Joycelyn Sarsagat Matignas she studied also in SMCM way back 1984-1986. St. Natalie under Ms.Marasigan is a boys class the section of Ms. Jocelyn is share to the section of St. Natalie. According for them even its separated but the room was shared to opposite sex so its look like that the only changes is the class settings not the sectioning.

According to Joycelyn Sarsagat Matignas She has a first advisory class in SMCM still separated the boys from the girls and that section is .II-Zephyrinus. School Year 1984-1985 “even its stressful its super saya” . You can see what the true person if you can join them for a year and their no so stubborn like the co education you can not identify sometimes who are the stubborn or the one who misbehave
According to Eimee Manuel Altre “during my time was only one year” I ask him a question and he replied that because I’m So confused because according to ma’am Benero its only one year but according to the group of Tee Ems and nag aral ka sa St. Mary’s college its not only one years because they came up a prove that posted into the group of nag aral ka sa st. mary’s college
According to Dennis De Las Alas Wala naman pag kakaiba pag recess nakakasabay naman kumain yang mga yan. So for him the single sex education is not effective because every recess they have the same time so they meet again.
According to Joycelyn Sarsagat Matignas successful sya for me kasi walang babae sa room pag all boys...masaya..walang kaagaw..LOL.. I’m so happy for this answer because even that administration say that not successful for her it’s successful.
According to Eimee Manuel AltreThat girls are better than boys? Just kidding, never thought about that during my time. Each year of my high school life is uniquely fun, challenging and very precious for that's when i learned the value of friendship, discovering my chosen identity and work hard but with lots of fun to attain my goal in finishing my secondary degree.” What ever settings will be either single sex education or Co-ed the one’s goal you need to attain is to finish your secondary degree. What ever they said that girls are better than boys don mind it just keep your mind to finish your studies.
CONCEPTUAL FRAMEWORK
Base on existing research articles, literature, clippings and studies, the researchers think that one of the most difficult to research is the concept of our school St. Mary’s College of Meycauayan to separate again Boys from the Girls but it’s only our batch. Some people think that the separation happens because many students here in SMCM are Flirt so the administrations do that said separation settings. Some people also think that boy’s are so lazy they not think that not all students are lazy but only few are not lazy.
But not only this school year happen that settings. Way back 1984-1986 SMCM administration do the same settings but the difference is it’s a whole department do that said setting an on our batch is only the graduating students which is the fourth year except the star section Generosity. Some teacher said that our batch since our freshman years in high school even in our grade school life our batch is the most batches difficult to handle because we are so stubborn and cause our teachers headache

Base on the survey conducted by Krystal on the lower years they said that the concept implemented is so unfair because why the star section generosity is not separated and other section are separated they say that they can make to build a two star section who is for girls and for boys. Somebody said also that why only fourth year level is separated and other year level is not so for her it’s too unfair because if somebody sees that kinds of settings they be a thinking that our batch is so stubborn and many flirt. this is the sad news that only 2 person said that yes for our sectioning and other said no out of 10 student who undergone survey. Even for that said news I’m happy because they like that said sectioning and they like to happen it to their not only for they fourth year life but also for the whole high school department .

A lot of issues undergoing our mind or to the mind of out parents or to the third party who saw that said settings because why only the fourth year level undergo to that changes and why the star section also under go to that said changes because that said student are the cause of head ache of the teacher and the star section are not. They think any malicious content for the said new settings. Even the third party thinks that said settings will not success like during the first year they change that said sectioning because they has an activities that both sexes are need like a beauty pungent like UN, JS Promenade and many more. They not think that why other school succeeds to that said settings. Why ateneo, Miriam, Lourdes, Don Bosco ,La Consolacion and other school succeed to that said sectioning even they only accept one sexes and not like on our school they accepting both sexes but they only separate it in the room and only the fourth year. Also the third party think that if their has a case that their has a third sex and they will lead to more difficult case because its only one sexes to be allowed on the room. Malicious thinking can happen because they only see their teacher opposite their sex

According to Female Homosexual: A study of a Sub Culture (February 2001) being homosexual lesbian is because you only in place and you see that you are all girls. Being homosexual is their has an imbalance hormonal imbalance, size of the passageway between the two parts of the brain that can lead to be a homosexuality. Another theory is sex abused. They recognized that the vital role of the family could be a source of being homosexual and not the peer group either friend or classmate. Their only 10 % for the peer group and 90% for the family

This study is aiming equality Gender here in SMCM especially terms of their right in studying here in SMCM and their opportunities in any contest academic or not and the education. We are all know that in our batch that their has a homosexual cases but they not saying the truth that they are homosexual I think its only one % who say the truth that they was a homosexual other not confirming that they are homosexual or even Silahis/bisexual. I think their shy coming out what they are especially they are studying in catholic school. They thinking that its so embarrassing to both part

Even the separation will last or was last their no cases that from being straight to in the closet or being homosexual or silahis. Because it’s a hormonal imbalance of a person even the laziness, flirting, bullying and other misbehavior of both students and other concept related to separation. Their nothing happen if you think it in negative

STATEMENT OF THE PURPOSE

This study was conducted to know why our batch was separated

a. What are the advantages and disadvantages of separation of boys and girls?

b. What are the effects of separation of boys and girls

c. What are the truth in separation in our batch

d. Is it the happening last separation will happen to this time of separation

SCOPE

The study and investigation was conducted to determine start and ending of separation of our batch. If for second time the separation will not success like the separation way back 1984-1986. To know how many years the separation run way back 1984. And to prove that the separation was good for our batch and to prove not only the simple section to separate but also the star section of the fourth year level. Not only our batch need separation but the whole high school department even the grade school and college department need the said separation or the one sex education to measure their capability without opposite sex and to avoid any malicious implant

DEFINITION OF TERMS

Advantages. Benefit resulting from some course of action

Administration. Management

Benefited. Advantage of s thing

Bullying. Act of treating abusively

Bisexual/silahis. a person who having relationship to both gender

Capability. the quality or state of being capable

Cases. Something conceived in the mind

Concept. something conceived in the mind

Co education. single sex education

Conceptualize. Making one ideas

Convent. school a school for the nun

Catholic school. An institution runs by a nun or priest

Coming out. Being out what is you

Disadvantages. An unfavorable

Dependent. Conditioned by another

Department. a category

Distraction. Act of being distract

Equality. the quality or state of being equal

Facebook . a type of social networking sites

Flirt. to move erratically

Freshman. First year in high school

Female homo sexual. Known as lesbian

Grade school. Elementary

Graduating. Granting academic degree or program

Goal. the act or action of causing a ball or puck to go through or into such a goal

Hormonal. are the chemical messengers in the body that travel the bloodstream to the organs and tissues

Homosexuality. Psycho-sexual state which a person is attracted to another of the same sex

Independent. not subject to control by others

Issues. a matter that is in dispute between two or more parties

In the closet. Concept suggest keeping ones homosexual identiy from other people which may be partially or completely

Identity. the distinguishing character or personality of an individual

Lazy. moving slowly

Lower years. below fourth year level

Misbehavior. Wrong act of behavior

Mental. Relating to the total emotional and intellectual response of an individual to external reality

Malicious. having or showing a desire to cause harm to someone

Nag-aral ka sa St. Mary's kung.. A group in the socialization site facebook who aiming to kno who are student study in SMCM

One gender per school. Single sex education

Psychologist. The one who study Psychology

Parochial. schools a Parish school

Percentage . A part of a whole expressed in hundredth

Regulation. The act or process of regulating

Separated. Keeping apart

Studies/studying. application of the mental faculties to the acquisition of knowledge

Settings. The manner, position, or direction in which something is set

single sex education. educating one sex

Socialize. to constitute on a socialistic

Spoil An act of damaging and harming

Success. a favorable outcome

St. Natalie. section in SMCM way back 1980’s

School Year. The period of time each year when the school is open and people are studying. Academic Year

Secondary Degree. refers to students within the middle school to high school age range

Stubborn. Difficult to handle, manage, or treat

Survey. Data gathering

Sectioning. a process of cutting or separating into

Sex abused. Forcing undergone sexual

Straight. Synonym of the hetero sexual

Sex. two major form of individual either male or female

Still separated related to be apart

Tee Ems. (Tubong Meycauayan) is a group on the social networking site Facebook who aiming to be one

Technology. tools that make life easy

Technical school. is a general term used for two-year college which provide mostly employment-preparation skills for trained labor, such as welding, culinary arts and office management.

Third party. a person other than the principals

Undergone. Going trough

Unfair. Not equitable

Uniquely fun. being the only one in violent or excited activity or argument

Very precious. great value

Value. Importance or usefulness

Vocational school. Trade school or career school), providing vocational education, is a school in which students are taught the skills needed to perform a particular job. Traditionally

II- Zephyrinus. Section way back 1980’s in SMCM

CHAPTER II

REVIEW OF RELATED LITERATURE

A. RELATED STUDY

Technologies should be equally accessible to male and female students. Yet, as girls enter adolescence, large numbers of them tend to lose interest in science, math, and computer science. Girls are narrowing the gender gap in science and math, but not in technology

Overall girls' test scores and course enrollments have risen in these areas, with the exception of computer science. In order to attempt to address this issue, the cause of the discrepancies between males and females in computer use must be established. Several issues need to be addressed:

  • What is gender bias?
  • What evidence is there that a technology gender gap and gender bias exist?
  • Why are girls in their adolescent years losing interest in computers?
  • What are the differences and similarities between how males and females perceive and use technology?
  • What technologies are out there? For whom are they intended?
  • What role do parents, educators, and manufacturers have in encouraging technology use among females?

Gender Bias defined as when examining gender bias, it is important to define and understand the term. Gender is defined by the American Heritage Dictionary as "classification of sex." According to this same source, bias is defined as "preference or inclination that inhibits impartiality; prejudice" (American Heritage Dictionary,1983). Thus gender bias is separation of gender in a way which prefers one sex over the other. Gender bias in technology refers to preference for or favoring of one sex over the other in computer use and/or access, software use and/or manufacturing, and Internet use and content. As can be seen, gender bias in technology is a multifaceted and complex issue.

Evidence of the technology gender gap and gender bias:

A gender gap exists between males and females in the use of technology. In a 1994 study, it was found that in a group of fourth through sixth graders who were defined as "heavy" computer users, the ratio of girls to boys using computers was 1:4 (Sakamoto, 1994). This is only the beginning of a trend which reveals a gap between boys and girls that continues into high school, college, and beyond. "Girls' participation rates (in math and science) in elementary and secondary school have increased, but drop as women advance in higher education. Although girls' achievement is approaching that of boys, a gender gap persists which increases with the grade level (Title IX at 25: Report Card On Gender Equity). Girls are making progress in these areas, but as the statistics show, much more needs to be done. One simply needs to walk into computer clubs or computer science classes in order to see the gap between the number of boys versus girls in these clubs and classes.

Often times, subtle messages are sent to girls and boys about expectations for their behaviors, attitudes, perception

Reasons adolescent girls lose interest in computers:

While information above makes it apparent that there is a gender gap in technology, there are a variety of theories as to why females lose interest in technology as they enter adolescence. One speculation is that girls simply approach technology differently. Some point to parental influence. Other theories blame teachers and the overall educational institution. Still other ideas lay the origins of this gap at role models or lack of role models. Another cause of the gender gap in technology is believed to be manufacturers of technology products. Although the most common theories point to a combination of all of these, each of the major influences will be discussed individually.

Teachers and the educational system are believed to influence the gender gap in computer use. One argument states that the gender separation in the use of the Internet begins as far back as kindergarten. Boys gravitate toward computer games and mechanical toys (Wilder, Marchie & Cooper 1985: 215-216, 220). Girls, on the other hand, are more likely to play with dolls or be involved in more social games. Teachers may treat boys differently than girls causing differing expectations. For example, boys and girls are often approached differently when dealing with inappropriate physical and verbal attacks on others. Boys involved in pushing or even fist fights may be more accepted that girls involved in the same activities; "boys will be boys." Girls are expected to be better negotiators thus preventing the need for physical altercations. In addition, girls in adolescence tend to experience weakening self perceptions (Miller, Chaika, Groppe,1996). Many girls in adolescence go through changes which negatively affect self image and future choices. As a result, girls often refrain from asking questions and sharing answers. Many girls feel inferior to others or wish to mask their leadership abilities and intelligence and decline opportunities to take part in student government, clubs, or challenges that may cause failure. These issues also discourage some girls from taking part in higher track classes in math, science, and computer science. Still others point at education at the administrative level. Here, some say, is where funds are appropriated. There are views that teachers and administrators in education are responsible for the gender gap in technology.

The lack of strong female role models is believed by some experts to be yet another reason for the gender gap in technology use between males and females. Dr. Janese Swanson Ed.D suggests providing children the opportunity to see guest speakers from both genders in nontraditional careers (Swanson, 1999). Common sense tells us that we find possibility or lack of possibility in what we experience. Girls who see and develop communication with other females who have careers in science and technology fields, will be more likely to have these high expectations for themselves. These girls will perceive science and technology fields as plausible careers for themselves. Few female mentors are available for girls when investigating career opportunities (Horizons, 1998). Just like boys, girls benefit from listening and interacting with mentors and role models.

Lee Canter said it best, "Parents are the most important, influential people in a child's life" (Canter, 1991). Parental views on gender roles, belief systems regarding gender, and actions toward both sexes will inevitably influence children. Children are sent strong signals about the world around them, more specifically about men and women, from parents. Parents' actions and words send messages about the parents' beliefs. Parents should closely examine whether their actions and words are telling their children what they wish them to be telling their children. Parents should closely examine what they say with their actions and words.

Ways parents, educators, and manufacturers can encourage technology use among females:

Those around young girls have great potential to influence their perceptions of themselves and other in relation to technology. Parents have the greatest potential to influence their children. Teachers and the educational system also have the ability to shape the self-images and futures of girls as they approach computers and computer fields. Though it can be argued that they have less influence, software manufactures and Internet providers also take part in encouraging or discouraging females in technology use. Parents, the educational systems, and manufacturers have the ability to help girls overcome the gender gap in technology.

B. RELATED ARTICLES

This articles was posted last June 29, 2007 Friday entitle Keeping Boys and Girls Separated

One of the notable characteristics of fundamentalist Islam is the strict segregation of the sexes. Interactions between men and women who are not related to one another are tightly regulated, if not prohibited.

But Islam is not the only religion which separates the sexes. Orthodox Judaism is also very restrictive about interaction between males and females.

The case of a Jewish school in Gothenburg which is being sanctioned by the Swedish school authorities for separating boys and girls. Their Swedish correspondent LN located the material for this articles in the Swedish media, and a Swede who calls himself Carpenter volunteered to do the translation into English

It appears that the Jewish school in Gothenburg was not singled out because it was Jewish, but for simple violations of Swedish school regulations (whatever one might think of those).

But the unanswered questions are these: What would have happened if the school had been Muslim instead of Jewish? Would it have been sanctioned in the same way?

There is probably no way to answer these questions, since Muslims are so numerous in Sweden, and Jews so few, that it is unlikely that an Islamic school would find itself in the position of having so few pupils.

And now for Carpenter’s translations:

These articles are about the Jewish elementary “free-school” (friskola; a non-tax-funded school or private school) Beit Menachem in Gothenburg, which has lost its permit to educate Jewish pupils due to “several violations” and the fact that that the school separates girls and boys in different classes.

Another article Jewish school loses its permit after criticism
Keeps boys and girls separated

Jewish school loses its permit after criticism Keeps boys and girls separated The Jewish ground-school [elementary school] has several serious violations, according to the School Authority [Skolverket]. Hence, the school’s approval is being revoked.

The school Beit Menachem consistently organizes education and recreational activities in segregated boy- and girl-groups. “It is not compatible with the values and objectives which are expressed in the school legislation,” writes Skolverket in a message to the press.

Skolverket has also criticized the deficiency of the students’ influence, and the unequal share of responsibility between the principal and the students. One more criticized failure is that there are fewer than twenty students, all from the same family. According to the school law, every school must have at least twenty pupils.

“The deficiencies are so serious that the approval can no longer be given,” writes Skolverket.

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“First of all, they separate by gender, both in the teaching and during the breaks. They do so due to the Orthodox interpretation of their religion; they’re Hasidim, and girls do not interact with boys. But separation between girls and boys is against the curriculum as Skolverket construes it. Secondly, the school has too few pupils,” says Gerhard Eriksson, Skolverket’s education counsel in Gothenburg.

Beit Menachem School has nine pupils, but normally a free-school must have at least twenty pupils to receive aid from the municipality.

Skolverket has now decided to withdraw the school’s permit, if they have not solved their problems before April 13th or have clearly presented how the problems will be attended to.

However, if the school appeals in court, the process can take several years, and in the meantime the
school can be run as usual.

February 29, 2008,Friday entitle Boys & Girls. Separation start during preschool days and this separation is very strict because you cannot have playmates that opposite your sex. Till they grow up that rule is strict implemented you can have your playdate so the boys and girls is so frustarated to that kinds of rule

Why Gender Matters was to make sense of what I had been seeing in my own clinical practice, as a board-certified family doctor - and as a PhD psychologist - among the children who I had come to known, practicing for many years in the same town in suburban Maryland. I tried to make sense of these observations by linking them to emerging research in psychology and neuroscience. Some of those efforts were more successful than others. On this article I would like to provide updates and corrections for those points where my discussion in Why Gender Matters is now clearly out-of-date or inaccurate.

” female/male differences in VISION. The reality I was trying to understand in this section. the fact that when you give young children a blank sheet of paper and a box of crayons, most girls draw people, pets, flowers and/or trees. Most boys try to draw a scene of action at a moment of dynamic change. That's a robust empirical finding, valid across race, ethnicity, and socioeconomic status. That doesn't mean that ALL boys try to draw a scene of action; some boys draw exactly what the girls draw. But boys are more likely to draw a scene of action, such as a monster attacking an alien; girls are more likely to draw people, pets, flowers, or trees, with lots of colors. The people in the girls' pictures usually have faces, eyes, hair, and clothes; the people in the boys' pictures (if there are any people) often are lacking hair, clothes, often the boys draw mere stick figures in one color. How come? The usual answer "Because that's what we teach them to do" is unpersuasive, as I explain in Why Gender Matters. On the contrary, many of these boys insist on drawing these pictures not because teachers tell them to draw such pictures, but in spite of the teacher's repeated pleas, "Why do you have to draw such violent pictures?

female/male differences in HEARING. The reality I was trying to understand in this section was my own repeated observation, over many years of clinical practice, that some young boys who had been diagnosed by other practitioners as having ADHD, suddenly did much better in the classroom, and no longer needed to be on medication, simply by moving them to a classroom with a teacher who spoke more loudly - about 8 decibels more loudly. It was much less common to find a same-age girl who did much better in a classroom where the teacher spoke more loudly. So far so good. I tried to explain this observation with reference to female/male differences in threshold auditory acuity. That was simply a mistake on my part. Female/male differences in threshold auditory acuity 1) are pretty much irrelevant to any observation regarding supra-threshold stimuli, and 2) are much too small to account for the observation that these boys benefited when teachers spoke about 8 to 10 dB more loudly. Female/male differences in threshold auditory acuity - comparing girls and boys the same age - are only on the order of 3 dB or less, usually less.

“ female/male differences in mathematics instruction. The reality I was trying to understand in this section of chapter 5 is the fact that many middle-school boys seem to learn algebra better when you start with numbers, whereas many same-age girls seem to be more engaged if you start with a word problem. For example, if you are teaching equations in multiple variables, the typical 7th-grade boy will do better if you begin by asking "If x + 2y = 60, and 2x + y = 90, how do we solve for x and y?" But the typical 7th-grade girl will be more engaged if you begin by asking "If a sweater and two blouses cost $60, and two sweaters and a blouse cost $90, how much does each blouse and each sweater cost?" That again is a robust finding, confirmed by classroom observation in diverse settings. I have visited more than 300 schools in the past 11 years, not only in the United States but also in Australia, Bermuda, Canada (Alberta, British Columbia, Nova Scotia, and Ontario), England, Mexico, New Zealand, and Scotland. (You can review lists of my visits to schools from 2005 to the present at leonardsax.com.) This finding is valid whether you are in Pittsburgh PA or Perth WA (Western Australia); it is valid whether the students are affluent or low-income; it is valid whether the students are Black or White, etc. Again, I'm not suggesting that EVERY boy does better with equations than with word problems; that is certainly not true. But the TYPICAL boy does better with equations than with word problems, whereas many girls are more engaged if you begin with the word problem and then work your way back to the equation. So far so good. The problem is that I tried to 'explain' that finding by referring to a study of spatial navigation in German college students. That study isn't really relevant, 1) because spatial navigation is not the same task as algebraic problem-solving, and 2) because students at university are many years older than students in middle school. The problem is that we didn't have a functional MRI study of middle-school-age girls and boys doing algebra problems - and we still have no such study.

Why Gender Matters What Parents and Teachers Need to Know about the Emerging Science of Sex Differences by Leonard Sax, MD, PhD

"Until recently, there have been two groups of people: those who argue sex differences are innate and should be embraced and those who insist that they are learned and should be eliminated by changing the environment. Sax is one of the few in the middle -- convinced that boys and girls are innately different and that we must change the environment so differences don't become limitations."
-- TIME Magazine, cover story

Praise for Why Gender Matters: " a lucid guide to male and female brain differences. . "
The New York Times

"When I was a college freshman, a male teaching assistant I sought help from told me matter-of-factly that women were not good at inorganic chemistry. Had I been armed with Why Gender Matters, about how biological differences between the sexes can influence learning and behavior, I could have managed an informed rejoinder to go along with my shocked expression. . . . Using studies as well as anecdotes from his practice and visits to classrooms, [Sax] offers advice on such topics as preventing drug abuse and motivating students. . . . The book is thought-provoking, and Sax explains well the science behind his assertions. . . [Why Gender Matters] is a worthy read for those who care about how best to prepare children for the challenges they face on the path to adulthood."
Scientific American Mind
"Convincing. . . Psychologist and family physician Leonard Sax, using 20 years of published research, offers a guide to the growing mountain of evidence that girls and boys really are different. . . -New York Post
Sax says, gender-neutral education favors the learning style of one sex or the other, and so only drives men and women into the usual stereotyped fields. The best way to raise your son to be a man who is caring and nurturing, says Sax, is to first of all let him be a boy. The best way to produce a female mathematician is to first of all let her be a girl. Mature men and women do draw on qualities that stereotypically belong to the opposite sex. But the easiest way to get them to that point is to first make them confident about being a man or a woman. . . Sax adds that children are less happy and confident nowadays because no one is teaching them how to be men and women. This is a powerful, even obvious insight, once you dare think it. . .
-Stanley Kurtz,
National Review Online.

Single Sex Education Advantages

Issues to Consider When Choosing a School

From Robert Kennedy, former About.com Guide

Statistics

The numbers are not in favor of single sex education. According to the 2007-08 Private School Universe Survey, 96% of private schools are coeducational. Only 1.8% of girls and 2.2% of boys are educated in single sex schools. These are tiny numbers when compared to the number of elementary and high school students being educated in private coeducational schools.

Advantages

Single sex education statistically is bucking the trend. With 96% of private schools solidly coeducational it is hard to point to any statistical reason why single sex schools can claim to be popular.

So you have to look at the intangible, some would even insist, unquantifiable benefits of single sex education to see what the advantages are. The research data in the U.S. is very limited. So basically every parent comes back to dealing with how his or her child learns best. Is she happiest in a single sex environment? Is he one of these totally self-confident children who will learn no matter where he happens to be? These are issues which you need to discuss thoroughly with your family as you decide which private school is appropriate for your child.

Assess your unique personal situation dispassionately. Boys' and girls' schools do a fine job of serving their clientele according to the limited studies available. Perhaps that learning environment is suitable for your child. It's one of many options worth exploring as you develop a list of schools to explore and inspect in depth.

The benefits of single sex education are largely what you make them to be. If your child learns to achieve his goals and is unafraid to be competitive, if she knows that she can be whatever she wants to be, and you can attribute some of those feelings and achievements to the learning environment she was in in high school, that is good. Unfortunately the benefits of single sex education are hard to determine simply because the numbers are so small. Only 4% of students attend single sex schools.

Disadvantages

The biggest disadvantage appears to be socialization or lack of it. Socialization can be a major distraction for many teenagers. These attitudes are not helped by the incessant pounding by the media of all kinds of socially acceptable behavior, hot music; 'cool' clothing and so on. That's probably why there are not more single sex schools. It's just not 'cool'. Paradoxically the lack of social distractions is also one of the main advantages to single sex education.